Books on Mom's, Boys, and Men

Helping Mothers be Closer to their Sons: Understanding the Unique World of Boys is a valuable resource for parents, uncles, and anyone invested in understanding boys. It delves into the differences between boys and girls across various aspects, including play, competition, discipline, biology, interactions, emotions, and more. This book celebrates boys, highlighting their unique qualities that are often overlooked by mainstream media. It provides an insightful look into why boys are special and how their distinct traits should be recognized and appreciated.  Paperback or ebook  

 The Way Men Heal is an update to the Snake book that is concise and focuses primarily on how men process their loss. It’s a quick read meant for men who don’t have time for lots of reading.  The book tells the story of how men such as Michael Jordan and Eric Clapton found a masculine path in healing from serious losses. Warren Farrell and Paul Elam both endorsed this one.  paperback or ebook   

Swallowed by a Snake: The Gift of the Masculine Side of Healing was Tom’s first book.  It goes into detail about the nature of grief from a more masculine perspective and opens the dialogue about how and why men and women process emotions differently. Offers chapters on our own culture and indigenous cultures and their differences in grief rituals.    Endorsed by Elizabeth Kubler Ross, Robert Bly, Hope Edelman and others, it has become a classic in the bereavement world. paperback or ebook.